15. Grace to Relate

This morning my son pulled this lesson out of my old notes I taught them. Then I thought it is maybe for all of us to have. Bless you.

The Grace to Relate.

I have walked the path of faith.
I have heard of the greatest miracles.
I have seen some.
I also have a father who walk in the high grace.
But the Highest of the Graces is Relationship.
Relationship is the Highest Miracle.
I have stayed with prophets that can tell the color of your underwear but leave the same prophet to
solve a relationship problem with a fellow brother they fail.
Though I have the gift of prophecy and understand all mysteries; and all knowledge; and though I have
faith so that I remove mountains and have no Love (Relational Grace); I am nothing 1Cor 13:2
We sing this verse but we don’t see through it.
The Grace to Relate – Love is the principal thing.
Love is beyond unity
Love is Oneness.
I know of people who are ready to face 90 000 people and sing the best song but would rather die if you
ask them to sort an issue with a spouse or mom.
To Relate is the hardest of all Graces.
In the path of Relating you meet all kind of species that God needs you to love.
Now people are ready to have a gift to remove devils but they are not ready to have a gift to deal with the
devil that they are.
To relate is to sit face to face with the devil that you have become.
There is a devil in me that wants to define relationship; whom to relate with and whom not to relate with.

The orphan spirit is this part in me that is not able to relate. The son spirit is the part in me that is graced to relate. All relationships originate from the Father and Son Spirit. This is the part in us that makes us to be of the same image and likeness as the Godhead. This is the very part that satan no matter how supernaturally gifted he is. Jesus says His disciples shall be known through the ability to relate. This is found in John 13:35.

Therefore pursue the Love Grace
Pursue the Relationship Grace.
It really amazes me that people want to have the Grace to heal the sick but they don’t want to have the
grace to Love the same.
We need to pursue the graces that were there before satan was a problem.
You do not always have to measure the Grace with Evil.

We are poor because we have failed to relate.
The first Grace you need to kick out poverty is the Grace to Relate.
Curse not the rich Ecc 10:20
This means be good in relating.
The easiest person to hate is a rich person.
The easiest person to hate is someone who is more blessed or successful than you are.
I have made my mind.
All these other Graces will be a bonus to me.
I just need Grace to Love.
I just need Grace to Relate.
I have seen it all. Love always win.
Love always make a way.
And lastly do not measure the Grace against evil.
When the bible said Grace will always abound more than Evil it did not mean Evil is the measure or the
opposite of Grace.
Many people (me included) say Africa has more Graces.
The truth is that it has more Evil.
This Grace we see is just out shining the evil we see.
I don’t want to measure Graces with Evil.
I want the Graces that were there before evil came.
Light or Wisdom was there before Satan came.
Understanding was there before satan came.
Love was there before satan came.
We don’t Love to shame the devil.
We Love because we are Love.


14. Revelation of Relationship

Revelation of Relationship.
05 Aug 2014
We are sometimes blown by wind as pollen in the bigger scheme of things.
We have no idea what our relationships are until something germinates there. Though we thought we understand the nature of the relationship; one thing follows after another. Suddenly it becomes Relationship Revealed. When the Holy Spirit is arranging relationships He does not give us the full picture; but the more we see the more we understand what we are involved in. Two people meet as class mates and end up being friends. Later on they end up noticing a new dimension where they are romantically involved. Later they get married. These are steps of a Relationship Revealed.
The more Revelation you get in a Relationship the better the assignment you have in the relationship. You only commit to the relationship to the level of revelation that you have concerning the relationship. Before you want to have a revelation concerning a particular relationship you first need to have a Revelation of what Relationship is.
Sonship is Relationship Revealed. It is a basic thread that knits all relationships that eventually form a Body, a family, a clan, a tribe and then a nation. Sonship is a cell structure; an atomic structure and a type of bond from eternity. Its configuration remains hidden to the Kingdom of Darkness. This among all relationships has never and will never be revealed to satan. Once we move away from an orphan culture we begin to have a new revelation concerning all relationships as ordained by God.
Our relationship in the Body of Christ is a continual Revelation that will never come to a stop.
The more the Body of Christ is Revealed the more Commitment and Rootedness emerge from us. We are in this Relationship in the Body and it is immense and overwhelming. Everyday we discover where we fit in the bigger scheme of things. The Revelation of a Relationship is victory in itself. When the Revelation of your True Relationship with your Spouse; Father Brother and Sister shows up you are unstoppable.
Satan has made us first and foremost not to have a revelation of the term Relationship. Secondly He has hidden Revelation concerning Relationships that surround you. When all fingers discover the Relationship they have to one another they begin to work together in the Body and accomplish great things. They go beyond picking and receiving and they begin to create and write and go to levels never imagined in their relationship. When you have a Revelation of Relationships around you; you shall do exploits. Everyday I learn a new thing about my relationship with my father as well as relationship with my sons. I study my relationship with each son and explore it as I would explore a brand new world. I know each relationship comes with explosive experiences as planned by Abba Father.
We will never fulfill our assignment well when Relationship is not Revealed in us. That is why Fathers do not solicit sons they wait for the Holy Spirit to reveal the relationship between the two. I will not forget the night when it dawned to me that Apostle Hausley was my Spiritual Father.
Yes I had my assumptions in certain relationships but I had to find my release in a Godly manner and approach my Revealed Relationship.
Apostle Hausley Revealed to me what Relationships are in Christ while the Holy Ghost revealed him as father to me. My first letter I wrote to him requesting that he be my father was application declined. This was a big surprise to me to a point that I had to suspend all the business I went to do in Ghana and purposed that the only deal I return with at home is to be fathered.
This man of God presented father son relationship to me in a way that I could not afford to spend another night without being fathered.
Even though eventually I had my request granted I still did not have a full Revelation of the Father Son relationship. As I write this to you there has been more Revelation in my relationship with him but it is still far from over. Every layer of Revelation that comes only deepens my relationship with him.
The Holy Spirit continues to Reveal another layer of our relationship.
So it is with my Relationship with the Body of Christ.
I get a new revelation everyday and all this revelation comes at the dining table. Each time the Word is served; whether by my father or my mentors I can only appreciate more and more.
Relationship Revealed will deepen your Resolve.



25 JULY 2014

This relational story is building up in my spirit. Our soul has been left with the sole responsibility to manage relationships. Therefore the so Christianity ul relates from its personality and exposure. The soul relates from its extent of understanding as well as culture. The soul relates from its expectations as well as its understanding of destiny. When a person is poor, this condition will affect his relationships whether spiritual or socially. Whether the person is saved or a non believer. Whether a person is in or any other religion. The reason why the soul must be saved is because it has the ultimate decisions when it comes to relationships. The reason why the soul must be transformed is because of this area of responsibility. Poor people prefer to relate with other poor people in heart matters where they understand each other concerning their situation. The same person relates with the well off person purely to get the resources he has. This relationship is at best a contractual or business relationship. Now this relationship is NEED BASED. This person relates with God in the hopes that his needs shall be met. This becomes a contractual relationship just like the relationship he has with God. When this poor person attends a night prayer and many prayer meetings it is not because he or she misses God; its because of the hopes to move away from poverty. When this person become very ‘spiritual’ it is not based on relationship with God but it is based on the relationship with poverty. Now this person is readily available to relate with Master God than Father God based on the type of need he or she has.

there are many ‘spiritual’ people who have come to relate with Jehovah the Provider and not the Father because of poverty. They say “before we discuss Father identity let us first focus on Provider identity” then Father relationship will follow. Today when you teach about Father you do not make sense to many of these people because they have come to Healer and to Provider. Now it is difficult to switch relationships when they have started this way. GOD WANTS TO BE FATHER FIRST THAN TO BE HEALER! That is why He sent His Son and not a Healer. That is why He sent His Son First and not Saviour First. He did that with Moses and that was good for slaves but the goal was for them to be told that they are sons. It is very difficult to switch relationships from employee and employer to son and father. Your father will not sleep a single night without revealing that he is your father and not your employer. How do you feel when your former employer is now your wife or husband? It takes some adjustment! How much more when your former employer is your Father? I am trying to show the extent of damages that the soul has in its journey of relationships. There are those who pray longer than others because of their need. There are those who fast longer than others because of their need. When you discover that you are son all these efforts come to an end. You instead fast longer in order to study your identity in this family. Daniel fasted longer because of the identity of his nation before God. Paul did not fast to be released in prison. Jesus did not fast for fourty days so that He will be given Power. I know people who fast for many days because they want Power and not the Giver of Power! We sometimes think that we are smart and come with ‘spiritual needs’ story in order to bribe God.

They need more Power so that their churches will be full, not because they love God so much! I have seen people who relate with spiritual gifts and not with the Giver. Even when you relate with the Giver that does not make you better, IF YOU DONT RELATE WITH HIM AS FATHER! We complain that people are users or even abusers when they come to relate with us because of what we have. Yet we use this way in relating to our Father and even much more. What would you do if you were told to go and bring a son to his father? Would you say: I have found a man who can give you the job? Would you say to him or her, I have finally found a person who will heal you? Would you say to him or her, I have found a person who will solve all your problems? Is that not the language which is used in the orphanage when children have better prospects to be adopted? So if you as an earthly father will not want to be introduced this way to your son, what gives you they idea that your evangelistic strategy is helping the Father God to find His sons? We shall continue about this story in the next instalment. Shalom.


Part 2 Relationship Conference: Chapter 11, May 25, 2014

This conference is about to go very steep.
This message has to reach key world changers on the ground.
Now I depend on you that this message reach them.
I have shown you the Church System.
I have shown you the dangers of this system.
Everyone is looking for the Mark of the Beast from outside the church.
I want to say this without a shadow of doubt that the Mark of the Beast is with us in the church.
What is the Mark of the Beast?
It is a mark in your hand and in your head.
The mark is a number 666. This number is Man Man Man.
Without this mark you don’t eat and you don’t trade.
This means that Relationship is replaced by this number.
I know many of these churches; where you will not be considered unless you are their member.
Their church name has become the mark of the Beast.
People go to them to get a miracle for money and be able to buy food.
Their miracles have become the mark in the hand and head.
Their church names have become a mark in the hand and head.
It is in the head because they are indoctrinated to become zoombies of this church.
Even when you come and say I am a child of God from this so and so church they will NEVER RELATE WITH YOU.
These souls have lost the substance that relate with others.
They will only relate when you carry the mark of their church.
This is a New Church System of the last days.
It is more ruthless than politics and business.
No wonder all commercial crimes are practiced better through churches than any other place.
This is the Virus that has come to kill Africa today.
All Virus can multiply but it is not fruitful.
Members rise in this church and so is crime in their community.
They give you insurance package that declares that others will experience crime but you as THEIR CHURCH MEMBER will not see crime!
No one has the burdern to see crime eradicated in the community.
In fact they rejoice when crime rises in the community because it is the only tool they will use to testify that this crime does not touch THEIR MEMBERS.
I have been watching this system long enough to understand its evil.
Even your family members will tell you these things but you will say they are jealous.
Non believers see that there is something wrong but you keep covering for this activity.
The Beast is in your midst!
This is not a Father Spirit!
A spirit that rejoices that others died and you are alive! Not because you are with Jesus but because you are in this church!
I say this church is a Virus because they don’t trust what you are doing in any other church if it is not theirs.
I told you that things are about to change!
Its either you continue supporting this New Church System or you go back home.
Now we do not deny the reality of the power they have.
But even in a normal community we know there is a GP and when your issue needs a specialist he will refer you to the specialist.
If your situation needs a Gynaecologist you shall be referred there BUT YOU DO NOT STAY THERE FOREVER.
If your issue needs a Dentist you are referred there AND RETURN TO YOUR GP!
How do you turn a Dentist into your family doctor?
Now if there is a specialist of Deliverance in your community must you go stay there?
Will you need Deliverance all the time?
Now if you understand that Doctors have Code of Practice what about in the Kingdom of God?
Why must you allow to be lied to by these Specialists when you have your GP?
Now this is Chapter 11 which I am about to finish here.
You need to see yourselves in the light of all what is happening.
You also need to weigh your sonship in the light of all these things.
You need to ask yourself if you will be part of the change or do you want to continue with this Church System.
This message is a wake up call to those who might be embracing the System of the Beast without knowing.
When you learn sonship embracing this system you will find it difficult to relate.
Sonship is the only cure to restore healthy relationships in a community.
I trust you will take these tips to your heart.


Part 2, Relationship Conference: Chapter 10, May 25, 2014

I want to begin our lesson with the encyclopedia definition of virus.
“A virus is a microscopic organism that can replicate only inside the cells of a host …. Complex structures: More complex viral structures may have a capsid that is … termed maturation) happens once the virus has escaped out of the host cell.”
A virus is a life that can only replicate inside of a cell host.
Imagine the cell host as your body.
It is life! But has come to destroy relationships of a body structure.
Now an anointed Giant Man comes into a living Host which is the body.
This is the Body of Christ in one community.
His anointing was given to go and bring life from dead places.
He was supposed to go to a place where there is no belief in God and begin life.
But he comes to an existing life body which has been developed by other pastors for many years.
He comes with this big anointing not to help the pastors for the work they have been doing all these years.
Instead he chooses a position of a virus in the Body of Christ in this township.
He first come as visitor as though he is coming to help a church.
This becomes the host or the springboard for his launch.
He then bullies everyone around with demands that cannot be met by his host.
Instead of building he now begins to suck the blood of this poor church.
Now if the pastor does not jump out he makes a breakaway church.
He first begin with the worship group of this church and choose the best musicians.
Then all the best singers of other churches come and join him.
Soon the word spreads in the township that a great man of God has arrived.
Now what was meant to be a life giver to the Body of Christ in this township becomes a virus eating all faithful relationships that have been developed for years in this township.
The wife moves from her church and leave the husband to go and support the Giant Man.
Many divorces in the Christian community in Africa have begun this way.
The children of a pastor leave his church and go join the Giant Man.
Now the virus grows by eating up all churches in this community.
There might be a big anointing in the community but Trust is broken.
The Giant Man blames all the churches for playing with people and there is “no fire” in their churches.
He comes remove sons from Fathers and introduce them to Fire.
Now these are those who pray “Our Fire who art in Heaven”.

Even the Churches Forum of this township is destroyed.
Young pastors move away from their mentors and join the church of the Giant Man because they also want this anointing.
Now in the midst of this great anointing there is a foundation of betrayal.
All girls move to this big ministry with their mothers.
Young men are forced to join this church because if they don’t they will lose their girls to the boys of this church.
Then a large swarm of unfaithfuls come to worship in this church.
Soon the pregnancies grow in this church and divorces show up in the midst of the anointing.
The reason is they are under an unfaithful untrustworthy orphan who ran from his father as soon as he saw that he has the fire power.
Africa is full of these clowns and they ravage all communities breaking trust and breaking relationship.
To me I have never seen a drug dealer that is able to break so many hearts of a township in one weekend of the so called revival.
Now be sure that Sonship and Relationships come difficult in the seed of these churches.
They can’t build a school or a clinic in that community instead they ship out all the money to the place where they came from.
This kind of floor crossing has never been seen even in politics.
No businesses have ever betrayed each other like these clowns.
I tell you this is the Mark of the Beast in person.
No wonder marriages in these churches can hardly be healed.
I have seen many who come to me from these churches struggling with sonship.
Now when this Virus has finished sucking this community he therefore brings the best speakers to town.
He then brings sonship teachings as well.
All new sermons come from this church.
Now that he is stable he establishes himself as a father of this community.
I really have no mercy for this kind of Hollywood stars.
This is the reason the Apostolic Community has been released in these last days.
Now many of you struggle in sonship because you carry the cover of these Giant Men.
Everyone wants to shine so as to be closer to these heroes who never fathered.
How do you suppose a person can be a father to 12 000 sons and attend to everyone of them?
The Apostles have come to correct this mess.
It is not easy for them; for they have to penetrate the same structures.
Therefore do not expect a perfect place after all this damage.
I had to bring it out raw as it is to you so that your foundations in your mind will begin to communicate the Heart of Father God and begin to work towards restoring the Body of Christ in your community.
Do not be mistaken; the Body of Christ is perfect and Healthy.
But all these people who have joined the Virus have to be returned to a relational life.


Session 9 Relationship Conference
24 May 2014

We are exploring relationship of the Trinity as in the Father and Son sharing the same Spirit.
We can’t help but notice this relationship displayed in the midst of the greatest power displayed in creation.
It is amazing how many relationships are lost in the midst of power.
Power struggles are destroying many relationships.
When people suddenly have the access to Let There Be power they fail to return to the Let Us code.
Father God displayed the greatest of all power during creation and He still returned to say “Let Us”
I have seen couples when one have a simple R5000 ($500) increase then its difficult to come back to the “Let Us” Altar with the partner.
I have seen people campaigning in politics with a “Let Us” manifesto but when we vote for them and they now carry a bigger “Let There Be” they are no longer able to come to the “Let Us” Altar.
The “Let Us” Power is for Sons.
I will explain that later.
Africa today is failing because the are incapable to have a “Let Us” Power.
Countries that are able to use the “Let Us” Power rule the world.
The one nation that has used the Let Us Power more than any nation in the world is the Jews. No wonder they rule the world.
When God created the world He said “Let There Be”
This is one Power you can use alone.
But when we were about to show up He used the “Let Us” Power.
We are the product of a “Let Us” Power.
There is nowhere mentioned that when He made Angels He used the “Let Us” Power.
There are many instances in the Bible that prove that Angels were created from the “Let There Be” Power.
We will go to that later in the course.
For now it is important for you to know that you are made from the “Let Us” Power and the Angels are made from the “Let There Be” Power.
The “Let Us” Power is a Relationship Power.
Let Man come from Our Relationship.
He did not say “Let the Angels come from our Relationship”.
If you start this conference from this chapter it may be very confusing.
If you have not revised the previous Chapters it will be more confusing.
I am laying the ground to define what is a Relationship.
The Relationship is the “Let Us” Power.
We need to have a Revelation of the “Let Us” Power.
Sonship is therefore the “Let Us” Power.
Sonship is Relationship.
Now many who fail in Sonship have failed in Relationship.
The Orphan spirit is a spirit that denies us relationships.
Even in the midst of relationships the Orphan spirit has a way of rearing its ugly head.
We are going to explore why Relationship fails in the next instalments.
We will be mainly exploring them based on Genesis 1.
The full understanding of Genesis 1 is sufficient to become the beginning and the end of the bible.